to my old friend

how life changes 
depending on how 
we look at it. and 
how hard it is to 
step back, think 
if I was on that 
side, or up above 
or even down 
below: a guest 
or the host: we 
each play such 
roles man across 
the sea. not knowing 
where you are now 
you have gone back 
in my mind to the sea 
it makes for better 
questions and better 
poetry than the old man 
up the road at a university 
I fear your youth has 
caught up to you and now 
you sit with tubes for breath 
and food: still I am sure 
you are there and if allowed 
you still read now and again